I'm looking for a broad-minded man for a reasonably meaningful relationship... or, like, y'know... whatever, as long as it falls within a (reasonably) broad meaning of "relationship". (Are we feeling... irony... yet?)

I love women too, and if there are any out there who are interested in being friends or having (some kind of) a relationship... let me know!

My main interests are in computers and music, mostly varieties of rock and roll -- usually, the louder the better!

Nota Bene: IANAS: I Am Not A Slut. There is a ledge/Beside a dome/And on the ledge adventures dance/There is an edge/That is your home/And on the edge breathes true romance... - "Stone of Love" R. Meltzer/Donald Roeser (Blue Oyster Cult)

My Ideal Person: ... someone who, first and foremost, is upfront and honest... and loves music.

Mostly I'm here looking for a long-term relationship... failing that? A relationship that has the crucial feature of a good LTR... powerful mutual benefits.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Red Letter, Blue Oyster Cult, Badfinger, Steely Dan, AngrySamoans,
& BILL NELSON!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, And honesty… and brains.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Mariska Veres, the singer for the band Shocking Blue.


When she sang Venus, she wasn't faking the passion.
Nor with Mighty Joe, Can You Hear My Love Buzz?, Send Me A
Postcard, Long and Winding Road, or to top 'em all:
Never Marry A Railroad Man.


Besides being a great singer, she was gorgeous.


RIP. She is missed.


There was also a guy I really wanted to seduce, a very nice
man who was good looking and a world-class musician...
problem is, I'd rather BE seduced--or something less
subtle! (In the unlikely event that he is reading this:
you did buy me a beer, and I still deeply appreciate
the gesture!) :) THANK YOU!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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